If It Means a Lot To You (feat. Sierra Kusterbeck)
A Day To Remember
The Struggle of Distance and Commitment in 'If It Means a Lot To You'
A Day To Remember's song 'If It Means a Lot To You' featuring Sierra Kusterbeck delves into the emotional turmoil of a long-distance relationship, particularly one strained by the demands of a career that requires constant travel. The lyrics express a dialogue between two lovers, where one is often away and the other is left waiting. The repeated plea, 'If you can wait 'til I get home, then I swear to you that we can make this last,' encapsulates the hope that their relationship can survive the separation if both parties are willing to endure the hardship.
The song's narrative unfolds with the traveling partner acknowledging the discomfort their absence causes, yet they are torn between their need for presence and the obligations that keep them away. The partner at home is asked to hold on with promises of a future where the distance is just a memory. However, as the song progresses, the reality of their situation becomes clearer. The line 'You know you can't give me what I need' suggests an acknowledgment of the unfulfilled needs in their relationship, hinting at the possibility that waiting may not be enough.
The emotional climax of the song is reached when the traveling partner admits that the situation may never lead to happiness and rejects the idea of remaining friends if the relationship ends. The repeated 'La, la la la, la la la' sung by a group signifies the collective understanding of love's trials, and perhaps, the shared experience of the audience who finds solace in the song's message. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the bittersweet nature of love and the sacrifices it sometimes demands.