Kindred

In 'Kindred,' A Perfect Circle delves into the complex emotions surrounding loss and the importance of cherishing connections. The song begins with a poignant question: how does one explain to a child the loss of a beloved pet? This sets the stage for a broader exploration of grief and the harsh realities of life. The lyrics highlight the innocence of youth and the difficulty of imparting such a painful lesson at a delicate age. The mention of a 'selfish fool’s impatience' suggests that the loss was caused by someone’s careless actions, adding a layer of frustration and helplessness to the grief.

The song then shifts to a more philosophical tone, reflecting on the transient nature of life and relationships. The repeated advice from 'our mother' to 'screw the fear, screw the dread' serves as a reminder to live fully and love deeply, despite the inevitability of loss. This message is underscored by the stark reminder that 'by and by, we'll all be dead and buried,' emphasizing the urgency of embracing the present moment and the people in our lives.

In the latter part of the song, the focus turns to the fear of pain and loss that often prevents us from forming meaningful connections. The metaphor of 'bridges' represents the opportunities for connection that we might avoid due to fear. The lyrics encourage us to 'cross those bridges' and not let the fear of potential loss deter us from experiencing the richness of kindred spirits and connections. This call to action is a powerful reminder that while life is fleeting, the connections we make can bring profound meaning and joy, even in the face of inevitable loss.