XO

The song 'XO' by Aaron Musslewhite delves into the complexities of a relationship that has reached its inevitable end. The lyrics paint a picture of disillusionment and the harsh realization that the love once believed to be true was perhaps more of an idealized concept than a reality. The protagonist reflects on how his partner is in love with the idea of love itself, rather than the actual relationship they share. This sets the stage for a narrative of coming to terms with the lack of magic they once hoped to find in each other.

As the song progresses, the lyrics become a conversation between the two individuals, where the stark truth comes out: the love has faded, and they no longer feel the same way about each other. The line 'Look at us burning down in flames for kicks' suggests that their relationship is ending not with a dramatic event but rather as a slow burn, a mutual acknowledgment that the passion has extinguished. The repeated assertion that the protagonist is not singing for his ex's affection ('xo') but because the relationship is over, emphasizes a sense of closure and the finality of their parting.

The imagery used in the song, such as comparing the relationship's end to a sunset or sunrise, evokes a sense of ambiguity and the passage of time. It's unclear whether this ending is a beginning or an end, but it's certain that the relationship has changed irrevocably. The song captures the bittersweet acceptance that comes with moving on from a relationship that no longer serves the people involved.