When All Is Said And Done

ABBA's 'When All Is Said And Done' is a poignant reflection on the end of a relationship, capturing the bittersweet emotions that come with it. The song opens with a toast, symbolizing a final farewell and a moment of mutual respect between the two individuals. The lyrics 'Deep inside, both of us can feel the autumn chill' evoke a sense of inevitable change and the natural progression of life, much like the transition from summer to autumn. The metaphor of 'birds of passage' suggests that both individuals are transient beings, moving through life and relationships instinctively, without placing blame on one another for the end of their journey together.

The song continues to explore the shared experiences and memories that the couple has accumulated over time. Lines like 'In our lives we have walked some strange and lonely treks' and 'Slightly worn but dignified and not too old for sex' highlight the resilience and dignity they maintain despite the challenges they have faced. The acknowledgment of their continued aspirations, 'We’re still striving for the sky, no taste for humble pie,' underscores their determination to keep moving forward and not settle for less than they deserve. The gratitude expressed in 'Thanks for all your generous love and thanks for all the fun' adds a layer of appreciation for the good times shared, even as they part ways.

The final verse delves into the resilience of the human spirit. The imagery of rising from the floor and standing calmly at the crossroads signifies a moment of clarity and acceptance. The repeated line 'There’s no hurry anymore, when all is said and done' suggests a newfound peace and understanding that comes with the end of a chapter. The song beautifully encapsulates the complex emotions of love, loss, and the acceptance of life's inevitable changes, leaving listeners with a sense of calm and closure.