I’d Rather Be Lonely

Abbey Glover's song "I’d Rather Be Lonely" delves into the complex emotions of love, fear, and self-preservation. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone caught in the throes of a budding romance, yet deeply wary of the potential for heartbreak. The opening lines, "Stop wait a minute, I’m not sure what I’m doing," immediately set the tone of uncertainty and hesitation. This is a person who is acutely aware of the risks involved in opening up to someone else and is trying to navigate these feelings without making a misstep that could lead to regret.

The recurring theme of warmth versus coldness is a powerful metaphor throughout the song. The protagonist describes themselves as "cold as ice," but the love interest makes them feel "so warm and nice," akin to "Sun rays hitting my skin on a summer's day." This contrast highlights the internal conflict between the comfort and joy that love can bring and the fear of vulnerability and potential pain. The repeated refrain, "Rather be lonely than hurting," underscores the protagonist's preference for emotional safety over the unpredictable nature of romantic relationships.

Despite the strong inclination towards self-preservation, there are moments of surrender in the song. The lines, "But when you kiss my lips, forget I’m playing, I want you, I want this," reveal a deep-seated desire to give in to the feelings of love and connection, even if just momentarily. This push and pull between wanting to protect oneself and the undeniable allure of love is a universal experience, making the song relatable to many. Abbey Glover's gentle yet poignant delivery adds an extra layer of emotional depth, making "I’d Rather Be Lonely" a touching exploration of the human heart's complexities.