Unlovable

Abbey Glover's song 'Unlovable' delves deep into the emotional turmoil of unrequited love and self-worth. The lyrics poignantly capture the paradox of being able to list countless flaws in oneself while simultaneously adoring someone who doesn't reciprocate those feelings. This contrast highlights the singer's internal struggle with self-esteem and the painful reality of loving someone who doesn't love you back.

The repeated refrain of 'I'm unlovable' underscores a profound sense of self-doubt and resignation. The singer has come to accept, albeit reluctantly, that they are not worthy of love, at least in their own eyes. This acceptance is not just about the lack of love from the other person but also reflects a deeper, more ingrained belief about their own value. The lyrics 'Oh, you take, take, you take what you can get / And I don’t mind it / Cos I’ve gotten used to the fact that / I’m unlovable' suggest a pattern of giving without receiving, a one-sided relationship where the singer's needs and desires are consistently overlooked.

The song also touches on the painful dynamics of such a relationship. Lines like 'Isn’t it fucked up? / How I can stare you in the eyes while you’re looking away' and 'It must be so nice / To have someone who gives you everything / Without having to give anything in return' reveal the emotional neglect and imbalance. The singer's plea for affection, 'Hug me ‘til I can’t breathe / ‘Til I can’t breathe / Kiss me like you’re gonna lose me,' is a desperate cry for validation and love, which remains unfulfilled. This raw and honest portrayal of unrequited love and self-worth issues makes 'Unlovable' a deeply relatable and moving song.