Turning Out

AJR's song 'Turning Out' delves into the complexities and uncertainties of growing up and understanding love. The lyrics reflect a sense of confusion and self-doubt, as the narrator grapples with their expectations of love versus the reality they experience. The opening lines, 'I hold you closer than I ever knew I could do, but I’m confused,' set the tone for the song, highlighting the internal struggle of recognizing true love and the fear of not being ready for it.

The song also touches on the influence of media and childhood stories on our perceptions of love. The line 'Maybe I’m stuck on what I see on TV, I grew up on Disney, but this don’t feel like Disney' suggests that the narrator's understanding of love has been shaped by idealized portrayals, leading to a disconnect between fantasy and reality. This theme is further explored in the chorus, where the narrator questions their readiness for love and the difference between romantic love and deep friendship.

Throughout the song, there is a recurring theme of ongoing personal growth and the acknowledgment that the process of 'turning out' is far from complete. The repeated line 'You say I turned out fine, I think I’m still turning out' emphasizes the idea that growing up is a continuous journey, filled with doubts and uncertainties. The song concludes with a plea for companionship and understanding, as the narrator expresses a desire for someone to stick around and witness their growth, despite the inherent doubts and fears.

'Turning Out' captures the essence of the transitional phase between adolescence and adulthood, where self-discovery and the quest for genuine connections are paramount. It resonates with anyone who has ever felt unsure about their path and the expectations placed upon them by society and themselves.