Sister Blister

Alanis Morissette's 'Sister Blister' delves into the complexities of female relationships within a patriarchal society. The song opens with the acknowledgment that women, despite being 'cut from the same cloth,' often find themselves in competition rather than solidarity. This competition is not innate but rather a product of societal pressures and expectations. Morissette highlights the tragedy of this dynamic, especially given the shared struggles and endurance women have faced throughout history.

The chorus, 'Sister blister, we fight to please the brothers,' underscores the central theme of the song: the internalized need for male approval. Morissette critiques how women are conditioned to seek validation from men, often at the expense of their relationships with other women. This pursuit of acceptance from the 'club of boys' leads to a destructive cycle where women climb over each other, rather than lifting each other up. The song poignantly captures the irony and sadness of this situation, as women are pitted against each other in a bid to gain entry into male-dominated spaces.

In the latter part of the song, Morissette calls for a shift in perspective. She acknowledges the differences and disagreements that may exist among women but emphasizes the importance of unity and mutual support. The lines 'You and me, we can help change their minds together' and 'You and me, in alignment until the end' serve as a rallying cry for women to stand together and challenge the status quo. By aligning with each other, women can create a more inclusive and supportive environment, breaking free from the constraints of patriarchal approval.