Como Decir Sin Andar Diciendo

Alejandro Sanz's song 'Como Decir Sin Andar Diciendo' delves into the complexities of love, destiny, and the human condition. The lyrics reflect a deep introspection about relationships and the choices we make. Sanz begins by describing the act of closing a door, symbolizing the end of a chapter or a relationship, yet leaving the door of friendship open. This suggests a desire to maintain a connection despite the end of a romantic relationship. The imagery of hanging a mirror of forgiveness that no one looks into highlights the difficulty of moving past grievances and the challenge of true reconciliation.

The song continues to explore the theme of destiny versus personal agency. Sanz questions who controls time and fate, ultimately concluding that destiny is not in the hands of a higher power or luck, but rather in the hands of the individuals involved. This is a powerful statement about taking responsibility for one's own life and relationships. The repetition of 'eres tú y soy yo' (it's you and me) emphasizes the mutual effort required to sustain a relationship and the belief that love is a conscious choice rather than a predestined path.

Sanz also addresses the fear and courage associated with love. He admits to closing the door but questions whether it was the right decision, indicating uncertainty and vulnerability. Despite this, he expresses a lack of fear towards love, rumors, and resentment, comparing them to insignificant drops in the ocean or a rope on a ship. This metaphor suggests that while these challenges may seem daunting, they are ultimately manageable. The song's title, 'Como Decir Sin Andar Diciendo,' which translates to 'How to Say Without Saying,' encapsulates the struggle of expressing deep emotions and truths without explicitly stating them, a common human experience in navigating complex relationships.