Por Defecto
Alex Ferreira
The Inevitability of Endings in 'Por Defecto'
Alex Ferreira's song 'Por Defecto' delves into the bittersweet reality of relationships and their inevitable endings. The lyrics open with a nostalgic reflection on the night the couple first met, highlighting the intensity and passion of their initial connection. The phrase 'Nos tomamos hasta el pulso' (We even took each other's pulse) suggests a deep, almost obsessive infatuation. However, this initial fervor contrasts sharply with the present, where they find themselves 'contando gotas' (counting drops) and 'soltando nudos' (untying knots), indicating a relationship that has become tedious and strained.
The chorus, 'Por defecto lo que empieza tiene que acabar' (By default, what begins must end), serves as a poignant reminder of the transient nature of relationships. Ferreira acknowledges the inevitability of endings, suggesting that despite efforts to sustain the relationship, it was doomed from the start. The repetition of 'de tanto que sí, que no' (from so much yes, so much no) underscores the indecisiveness and emotional turmoil that plagued their connection, ultimately leading to its demise.
Ferreira also touches on the concept of 'negligencia emocional' (emotional negligence), which he describes as having taken a significant toll on the relationship. This negligence, coupled with unmet expectations and unfulfilled desires, contributed to the gradual unraveling of their bond. The line 'Que nunca fueron los cambios que quisimos, los que hicieron que cambiara todo' (It was never the changes we wanted that changed everything) suggests that external factors and unforeseen changes played a crucial role in their separation. Through 'Por Defecto,' Ferreira captures the complex emotions and inevitable conclusion of a relationship that, despite its passionate beginnings, could not withstand the test of time.