Sidelines

Alex Siegel's song 'Sidelines' delves into the emotional turmoil of a relationship where one partner feels undervalued and strung along. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone who has reached their breaking point, tired of the uncertainty and emotional games. The opening lines, 'When you fall there’s a price to pay / I can tell something’s in the way,' suggest a relationship fraught with obstacles and unspoken issues. The protagonist is no longer willing to ignore these problems, as indicated by the line, 'Can’t pretend that it’s all the same / You’re holding back / Do you feel afraid.' This sets the stage for a confrontation about the true state of their relationship.

The chorus is a powerful declaration of self-respect and the refusal to be sidelined any longer. 'Won’t follow you down / I'm turning around / Won’t live my life on the sidelines' signifies a pivotal moment of empowerment. The protagonist demands clarity and commitment, unwilling to waste any more time on someone who cannot decide on their love. This sentiment is echoed in the lines, 'If you can’t decide / On my love in your life / Stop wasting all of my sweet time,' emphasizing the value of their own time and emotional investment.

The song also touches on the pain of betrayal and the struggle to trust. 'You pull me in / Just to keep me out / I trusted you even through my doubt' reveals the emotional push and pull that has left the protagonist feeling isolated and alone. The realization that they were happier on their own, 'Now you just make me feel alone / I was happier on my own,' underscores the importance of self-worth and the courage to walk away from a toxic situation. 'Sidelines' is a poignant anthem for anyone who has ever felt undervalued in a relationship, encouraging them to reclaim their time and emotional well-being.