How Much Longer?

Alexander 23's song 'How Much Longer?' delves deep into the emotional turmoil of unrequited love. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone grappling with the pain of loving someone who no longer reciprocates those feelings. The opening lines, 'I tussle hard, did I scare you away / When I want it bad, I get in my own way,' suggest a self-awareness of the singer's own flaws and how they might have contributed to the relationship's downfall. This sets the stage for a narrative filled with regret and longing.

The repeated 'pinky promise' motif symbolizes a desperate attempt to hold onto the past and a promise to change, even though the singer admits, 'I can't see where to run toward.' This line highlights the confusion and helplessness that often accompany heartbreak. The chorus, with its poignant questions, 'Where'd you go, love? How'd I lose you? / Did I hurt you? Are you mad?' underscores the singer's desperate need for answers and closure. The willingness to 'wait until forever' if the love is reciprocated again speaks to the depth of the singer's commitment and the agony of waiting in vain.

The song's emotional climax is reached with the repeated question, 'And how much longer can I love you / When, baby, you don't love me back?' This line encapsulates the central theme of the song: the unbearable pain of loving someone who no longer loves you. Alexander 23's heartfelt delivery and the raw honesty of the lyrics make 'How Much Longer?' a powerful exploration of the complexities of love and loss. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the heartache of unrequited love, making it a poignant and relatable piece.