Por Ella
Alfredo Abalos
The Bittersweet Lessons of Love in 'Por Ella'
Alfredo Abalos' song 'Por Ella' delves into the complexities of love and the profound impact it can have on an individual's life. The lyrics narrate a journey through a tumultuous relationship that brought both passion and pain. The protagonist reflects on how this love was not beneficial, yet it taught him significant life lessons. The line 'Por ella conocí el amor que no fue bueno para mí' (For her, I knew a love that was not good for me) sets the tone for the song, indicating a love that was intense but ultimately harmful.
The song explores themes of giving without expecting anything in return, as highlighted in 'Supe que el amor es dar y nunca esperar recibir' (I learned that love is giving and never expecting to receive). This selfless approach to love is likened to the sun, which rises and gives its light unconditionally. However, this selflessness also leads to loneliness and heartache, as the protagonist grapples with the solitude that follows the end of the relationship. The recurring mention of 'mañana' (tomorrow) and 'ayer' (yesterday) signifies a struggle between moving on and being consoled by memories.
Abalos uses the traditional Argentine folk music style, chacarera, to convey his emotions. The line 'Ayer me vino a consolar esta chacarera' (Yesterday, this chacarera came to console me) suggests that music serves as a solace for the protagonist's broken heart. The song's narrative is a poignant reminder of the dual nature of love—its ability to bring immense joy and deep sorrow. Through 'Por Ella,' Abalos captures the essence of a love that is both beautiful and devastating, leaving a lasting impression on the listener.