Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)

All Time Low's 'Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)' captures the tumultuous emotions of a relationship that is both intoxicating and destructive. The song's protagonist finds himself in a state of emotional conflict, torn between staying in a relationship that is clearly detrimental and leaving, which also feels like a loss. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of this internal struggle, using metaphors and vivid imagery to convey the depth of his turmoil.

The opening lines, 'I fought it for a long time now / While drowning in a river of denial,' set the stage for the protagonist's battle with his feelings. He acknowledges the effort he has put into trying to make the relationship work, despite knowing deep down that it might be futile. The mention of a 'police scene, chalk line' and 'tequila shots in the dark scene of the crime' suggests a sense of chaos and recklessness that has permeated their interactions, further emphasizing the toxic nature of their bond.

The chorus, 'How was I supposed to know / That you were over me? / I think that I should go / Something's telling me to leave / But I won't / 'Cause I'm damned if I do ya / Damned if I don't,' encapsulates the essence of the song. It highlights the protagonist's realization that his partner has moved on, yet he feels trapped by his own emotions. The phrase 'damned if I do ya, damned if I don't' perfectly sums up the no-win situation he finds himself in, where both staying and leaving come with their own set of consequences.

The song also touches on themes of self-deception and regret. Lines like 'Make a fool of myself / When you hang around / When you're gone / I'm a match that's burning out' reveal the protagonist's awareness of his own vulnerability and the toll the relationship has taken on him. Despite recognizing the need to move on, he remains stuck, unable to break free from the emotional hold his partner has on him. This internal conflict and the raw honesty of the lyrics make 'Damned If I Do Ya (Damned If I Don't)' a relatable and poignant exploration of the complexities of love and heartbreak.