Há Quem Queira
Anselmo Ralph
The Courage to Let Go: Anselmo Ralph's 'Há Quem Queira'
Anselmo Ralph's song 'Há Quem Queira' delves into the emotional turmoil of a relationship on the brink of collapse. The lyrics express the frustration and confusion of a partner who feels unappreciated and unloved despite their best efforts. The protagonist believes that the root of the problem lies in their partner's lack of courage to end the relationship, leading to constant complaints and dissatisfaction. This sentiment is encapsulated in the repeated line, 'Eu acho que é só falta de coragem,' which translates to 'I think it's just a lack of courage.'
The song paints a vivid picture of a one-sided effort to maintain the relationship. The protagonist has made numerous changes and even elevated their partner to a pedestal, referring to them as a 'deusa' or goddess. Despite these efforts, nothing seems to satisfy their partner, who continues to find fault in everything. This ongoing struggle leads the protagonist to a moment of clarity, where they realize that the issue is not with them but with their partner's inability to be honest about their feelings. The repeated plea, 'Se tu não me queres, Baby há quem queira,' meaning 'If you don't want me, Baby, there are others who do,' underscores the protagonist's readiness to move on.
The song also touches on the theme of self-worth and the importance of not staying in a relationship out of pity or obligation. The protagonist urges their partner to be honest and let go, emphasizing that pretending to love someone is not worth the emotional toll. The closing lines, 'Boa sorte no outro amor,' or 'Good luck with another love,' signify a final farewell and a wish for better future relationships. Anselmo Ralph's soulful delivery and heartfelt lyrics make 'Há Quem Queira' a poignant exploration of love, courage, and self-respect.