Do you mean it

Anthony De La Torre's song 'Do you mean it' delves into the complexities and uncertainties of love and relationships. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship fraught with communication issues and emotional turmoil. The narrator expresses a desire to communicate, but feels unheard, leading to a sense of isolation and frustration. This is evident in lines like 'I wanna talk a lot but you don't wanna listen that much,' highlighting the disconnect between the partners.

The recurring question, 'Do you even mean it when you say you love me?' underscores the narrator's deep-seated insecurities and doubts about the authenticity of their partner's love. This doubt is compounded by the narrator's own struggles, as they admit to having problems and feeling like they are burning out emotionally. The metaphor of 'Heart on a curb, love in the trash can' poignantly captures the sense of discarded and devalued emotions, while 'Heart on the rocks, love in the ash tray' suggests a relationship that is deteriorating and losing its spark.

Throughout the song, there is a palpable sense of desperation and confusion. The narrator questions whether their partner would be affected if the relationship ended, asking, 'If we quit now, would you freak out? Would you be mad?' This uncertainty about the future and the fear of being unloved or abandoned is a central theme. The song's emotional intensity is heightened by the repeated refrain, 'Do you mean it?' which serves as a haunting reminder of the narrator's quest for genuine love and reassurance. Anthony De La Torre's raw and honest portrayal of these emotions makes 'Do you mean it' a powerful exploration of the fragility and complexity of love.