R.E.M
Ariana Grande
Dreaming of Love: Ariana Grande's 'R.E.M'
Ariana Grande's song 'R.E.M' is a dreamy love ballad that explores the feelings of infatuation and desire through the metaphor of a dream. The title itself, 'R.E.M,' refers to the rapid eye movement stage of sleep, during which dreams are most vivid. Grande uses this concept to describe a love so intense and ideal that it feels like a dream she doesn't want to wake up from.
The lyrics convey a sense of immediacy and intimacy, with Grande confessing her love in a direct and unconventional way: 'Excuse me, um, I love you.' This line sets the tone for a song that's both personal and whimsical. She expresses a desire to keep the dream (and by extension, the relationship) alive, fearing that any movement or words might break the spell. The dream serves as a safe space where she can explore her feelings without the risk of reality's complications.
Throughout the song, Grande touches on themes of idealization and the longing to make a dreamlike love real. She hints at wanting more than just a physical connection, aspiring to turn 'two single people into a couple.' The song's bridge, where she contemplates buying her love interest anything but acknowledges she can't possess him, suggests a mature understanding that love cannot be forced or bought. 'R.E.M' is a blend of fantasy and reality, capturing the euphoria of new love and the hope that it will last beyond the dream.