L'uomo che non c'è

Arisa's song 'L'uomo che non c'è' delves into the complexities of love and the human tendency to create illusions to cope with loneliness and heartbreak. The lyrics explore the idea that time is a constant, while love is a variable that can lead to both joy and melancholy. When in love, everything seems easy, but when love is lost, it becomes a dramatic ordeal. The song suggests that one way to deal with this pain is to immerse oneself in a fictional relationship, convincing oneself and others that it is real.

The protagonist of the song creates an imaginary lover, describing him as perfect in every way—passionate, sweet, and unique. She tells her friends about this idealized man, using the collective 'we' to make the illusion more convincing. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of this non-existent man, making him seem almost tangible. However, the reality is that he doesn't exist, and the protagonist is aware of this deep down, even though she finds it hard to admit.

The song also touches on societal pressures and the desire to conform to the ideal of having a perfect partner. The protagonist avoids introducing her imaginary lover to her friends, making excuses about his elusive nature. The lyrics suggest that with time and luck, one might find a real person who fits this idealized image, but until then, the protagonist continues to live in her fantasy. This narrative highlights the human need for connection and the lengths to which people will go to avoid facing the harsh reality of loneliness.