Que Nadie Vea

Ricardo Arjona's song 'Que Nadie Vea' delves into the deeply personal and often painful journey of someone grappling with their gender identity. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a child who feels different from societal norms, engaging in activities that are traditionally associated with the opposite gender. The line 'Cambiándole la ropa a las muñecas' (Changing the dolls' clothes) and 'Poniéndose el labial que nadie vea' (Putting on lipstick so no one sees) highlight the secretive nature of these actions, driven by fear of judgment and rejection.

As the song progresses, it touches on the struggles faced during adolescence. The protagonist's preference for dance and art over sports ('Prefiere la danza y la acuarela a eso del fútbol y la acrobacia') sets them apart, leading to isolation and the need to hide their true self. The lyrics 'El closet es la única guarida' (The closet is the only refuge) metaphorically represent the hiding of one's true identity, a common experience for many in the LGBTQ+ community.

The song also addresses the societal pressures and the pain of living a double life. The protagonist faces rumors and suspicions ('Empiezan a rondarte los rumores'), and the weight of having to conform becomes unbearable. The lines 'Que no lo hagan llorar en biología porque la ciencia no se percató' (Don't make him cry in biology because science didn't notice) and 'Que no lo vean sufrir en teología con eso de que Dios se equivocó' (Don't let them see him suffer in theology with the idea that God made a mistake) poignantly capture the internal and external conflicts faced by those who feel their identity is at odds with societal and religious expectations.

In the end, the song reflects on the fleeting moments of freedom and the enduring loneliness that comes with living a life in hiding. The final lines, 'Naciste siendo sol y siendo luna, viviste como dama y caballero' (You were born being sun and moon, lived as a lady and gentleman), encapsulate the duality and complexity of the protagonist's existence. Arjona's poignant lyrics and emotive storytelling offer a powerful commentary on the struggles of gender identity and the longing for acceptance and understanding.