Better
Ashlee
Navigating the Turbulent Waters of Love and Self-Worth
Ashlee's song "Better" delves into the complexities of a tumultuous relationship where emotional and physical connections are deeply intertwined. The lyrics reveal a struggle between the heart and the mind, as the protagonist grapples with the allure of a partner who is both captivating and frustrating. The repeated phrase "going back and forth like there is no end" encapsulates the cyclical nature of their interactions, highlighting the difficulty of breaking free from a toxic pattern despite knowing it's the right thing to do.
The song's chorus emphasizes the protagonist's awareness of their worth and the need for something better. Lines like "I know there’s better, better somewhere for me" and "You best do better better better" serve as a self-affirmation, a reminder that they deserve more than what they are currently receiving. This internal conflict is further complicated by the partner's undeniable charm and creativity, making it hard to say no even when it's clear that the relationship is causing pain.
Ashlee's lyrics also touch on the theme of authenticity and the importance of genuine connections. The line "Making people think that what we have ain’t real" suggests a facade that the partner maintains, adding another layer of frustration for the protagonist. The song ultimately becomes a call for honesty and improvement, urging the partner to step up or step aside. Through its candid exploration of love, desire, and self-respect, "Better" resonates with anyone who has ever felt torn between staying in a flawed relationship and seeking something more fulfilling.