Upgrade
Aya Florez
From Friends to Lovers: The Emotional Upgrade
Aya Florez's song "Upgrade" delves into the complex emotions and evolving dynamics of a friendship that is on the brink of turning into a romantic relationship. The lyrics capture the internal conflict and the desire for a deeper connection, moving beyond the boundaries of friendship. The song begins with the admission of a small lie, where the narrator initially claimed that the relationship would remain purely physical. However, as the relationship progresses, the narrator's feelings deepen, and the promises of keeping things casual start to dissolve, much like the metaphorical melting of promises on a wet body.
The chorus emphasizes the narrator's longing to redefine the relationship, suggesting an 'upgrade' from being just friends to becoming the 'love of my life.' This desire is highlighted by contrasting the behaviors and emotions associated with friendship and romantic love. Friends don't kiss the way lovers do, nor do they evoke the same level of joy and affection. The repeated lines, "Amigo não dá beijo bom igual o seu" (A friend doesn't kiss as well as you do) and "Amigo não é motivo de tanto sorriso meu" (A friend isn't the reason for so many of my smiles), underscore the unique and irreplaceable nature of the romantic feelings that have developed.
The song also touches on the frustration and secrecy that come with hiding true feelings. The narrator expresses a desire for transparency and honesty, wanting to move past the 'complicated status' and openly embrace the romantic connection. The repeated suggestion to 'upgrade' the nickname from 'best friend' to 'love of my life' encapsulates the central theme of the song: the yearning for a deeper, more meaningful relationship that transcends the limitations of friendship. Aya Florez's heartfelt lyrics and emotive delivery make "Upgrade" a relatable anthem for anyone who has ever fallen for a friend and wished for something more.