Before I Ever Met You
Banks
The Heartbreak of Realizing It's Over
Banks' song "Before I Ever Met You" delves into the painful realization that a relationship is no longer working. The lyrics are a raw and honest reflection on the complexities of love and the inevitable heartbreak that comes with it. The song opens with the acknowledgment that the relationship brings out the worst in both partners, highlighting the toxic dynamics that have developed over time. The singer admits that while the breakup will be painful, it is necessary to prevent further emotional damage.
The chorus emphasizes the contrast between life before and after the relationship. Before meeting their partner, the singer was unaware of the depths of love and pain they could experience. The lyrics poignantly capture the duality of love—its ability to bring immense joy and profound sorrow. The repeated line, "I never knew I could be broken in so many ways," underscores the emotional toll the relationship has taken on the singer.
Banks also touches on the practical aspects of a breakup, such as moving out and deciding who keeps the dog. These details add a layer of realism to the song, making it relatable to anyone who has gone through a similar experience. The song's melancholic tone and introspective lyrics make it a powerful exploration of the end of a relationship and the journey back to self-discovery and healing.