Still (Reprise)
Ben Folds
Embracing the Inevitability of Change
Ben Folds' song "Still (Reprise)" delves into the theme of change and the human desire for constancy. The lyrics reflect a personal struggle with the expectation to have all the answers and the disappointment that arises when one falls short. The opening lines, "I, must, give the impression / That I have the answers for everything," set the stage for a narrative about vulnerability and the pressure to appear infallible. This sentiment is further emphasized by the line, "You, were, so disappointed / To see me unravel so easily," highlighting the emotional toll of these expectations.
The chorus, with its repetition of "It's only change / Only everything I know," serves as a reminder that change is a fundamental part of life. Even things that seem still and unchanging are in a constant state of flux. This idea is poetically reinforced with the line, "Even the things that seem still, are, still... Changing." The use of the word "still" in both its meanings—motionless and continuing—adds a layer of depth to the lyrics, suggesting that change is an ongoing process, even in moments of apparent stillness.
The song also touches on the conflict between the desire for stability and the reality of change. The lines, "You want something that's constant / And I only wanted to be me!" capture this tension. Folds seems to be advocating for authenticity and self-acceptance in the face of inevitable change. The repetitive, almost meditative "La da oh la da" sections provide a musical backdrop that mirrors the cyclical nature of change, reinforcing the song's central theme. Through its introspective lyrics and soothing melody, "Still (Reprise)" encourages listeners to embrace change as a natural and essential part of life.