​I Wanna Love You But I Don’t

Ben Platt's song "I Wanna Love You But I Don’t" delves into the painful and complex emotions of unrequited love. The lyrics reveal a deep internal struggle where the narrator acknowledges the perfection of their partner but realizes that this perfection does not align with their own needs and desires. The song captures the essence of a relationship that looks ideal on the surface but lacks the deeper connection necessary for true love. This dichotomy is poignantly expressed in lines like, "I think it sucks that you're perfect / 'Cause you're not perfect for me," highlighting the painful irony of the situation.

The chorus, with its repeated refrain, "I wanna love you but I don't," underscores the narrator's internal conflict. Despite their efforts to feel a genuine romantic connection, they find themselves unable to do so. This is further emphasized by the lines, "I begged my heart to start to race when I'm kissing you / I say I'm dreaming 'bout your face, but it isn't you." These lyrics convey a sense of desperation and frustration, as the narrator tries to force feelings that simply aren't there. The song's emotional depth is amplified by Platt's heartfelt delivery, making the listener feel the weight of the narrator's sorrow and resignation.

The song also touches on themes of acceptance and letting go. The narrator acknowledges that they are not the right person for their partner and that someone else will be able to love them as they deserve. This is evident in the lines, "I know there's somebody out there / To love you just as you are." The song concludes with a sense of bittersweet resolution, as the narrator decides to end the relationship for the sake of both parties' happiness. The repeated phrase, "You gotta let me let you go," serves as a poignant reminder that sometimes, the most loving thing one can do is to let go.