Tous Les Divorcés

Bénabar's song "Tous Les Divorcés" delves into the multifaceted nature of love and relationships, particularly focusing on the experiences of those who have gone through divorce. The lyrics poignantly explore the evolution of love from the first, often idealized, romance to subsequent relationships that follow. The song begins by reminiscing about the first love, which is described as an all-consuming and eternal feeling, even though it often ends in heartbreak. This initial love is portrayed as a formative experience, shaping one's understanding of relationships and emotional depth.

As the song progresses, Bénabar introduces the concept of second and third loves, each carrying its own significance and lessons. The second love is seen as less dramatic but still valuable, offering a sense of gratitude and a cautious hope that this time it might be the real deal. By the time the third love comes around, there's a sense of familiarity with the process, yet it doesn't diminish the intensity or authenticity of the emotions involved. Bénabar emphasizes that loving multiple times doesn't make the feelings any less real or profound.

The chorus, which repeats the line "Tous les divorcés, se sont aimés, tendrement" (All the divorced, have loved, tenderly), serves as a reminder that despite the end of these relationships, the love that was once shared was genuine and meaningful. The song also touches on the societal and familial implications of divorce, particularly how parents communicate their experiences to their children. Bénabar raises a thought-provoking question about the importance of first love versus the most recent one, leaving it open for interpretation. The song concludes with a broader reflection on love, acknowledging that some people may experience multiple loves while others may only know one, and that everyone deserves to find their soulmate, regardless of age or past experiences.