Sweet Sorrow of Mother (불륜)
BIBI
The Bittersweet Sacrifice of Love in 'Sweet Sorrow of Mother'
BIBI's song 'Sweet Sorrow of Mother (불륜)' delves into the complex and often painful nature of love and sacrifice. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a love that is willing to give everything, even at the cost of personal suffering. The opening lines, '사랑 말입니다 / 대중 없습니다,' suggest that love is unpredictable and without boundaries. The imagery of giving away pieces of oneself to nourish another, '내 품조각을 도려가 / 당신의 배를 불려도,' highlights the depth of this selfless love. This metaphor of physical sacrifice underscores the emotional and psychological toll that such love can take on an individual.
The song also touches on the theme of promises and the strength required to keep them. '약속 말입니다 / 자신 있습니다,' indicates a firm commitment, even to the point of cutting one's hair to clothe another's child. This act symbolizes a deep sense of duty and the willingness to endure hardship for the sake of a loved one. The repeated phrase '거뜬히' (easily) emphasizes the ease with which the narrator is willing to make these sacrifices, further illustrating the depth of their devotion.
In the final stanza, the lyrics shift to a more secretive and intimate form of love. '사랑을 합니다 / 몰래 해봅니다,' suggests a love that is hidden and perhaps forbidden. The act of writing this love deep within oneself and the nightly farewell hugs convey a sense of longing and unfulfilled desire. The '마지막 떼쓴 포옹에 / 묻혀 보냅니다' line poignantly captures the sorrow of parting and the emotional weight carried by the narrator. BIBI's evocative lyrics and haunting melody combine to create a powerful exploration of love's complexities, sacrifices, and the quiet pain that often accompanies it.