Falling Away
Big Scary
Navigating the Paradoxes of Love and Life in 'Falling Away'
Big Scary's song 'Falling Away' delves into the complex and often contradictory nature of love and life. The lyrics explore the dualities and paradoxes that come with human experiences, particularly focusing on the emotional rollercoaster that love can be. The repeated phrases 'They say it's good for the heart' and 'They say it's good for the mind' juxtapose with 'They say it's torture and pain,' highlighting the conflicting advice and feelings that people encounter. This duality is further emphasized with metaphors like 'pushing a stone up a hill to let it roll,' which evokes the myth of Sisyphus, symbolizing the endless and often futile efforts we make in life and love.
The chorus brings a sense of cyclical nature and inevitability with lines like 'It's the light of the morning, the fall of the rain, a season that's dawning, a consciousness forming.' These lines suggest that just as natural cycles are inevitable, so are the ups and downs of life and love. The 'ocean of disappointment' metaphorically represents the vast and overwhelming feelings of letdown that can accompany these experiences. Yet, despite these disappointments, the act of 'falling' is repeated, indicating a continuous, almost unavoidable, plunge into these emotional states.
The personal touch in the lines '(but every time I look at you, I hope it's your arms that I fall into)' adds a layer of intimacy and hope. It suggests that amidst all the chaos and contradictions, there is a desire for a safe haven, a person who can provide comfort and stability. This line encapsulates the human need for connection and the hope that, despite the inevitable falls, there will be someone to catch us. Big Scary's musical style, often characterized by its emotional depth and introspective lyrics, perfectly complements the themes explored in 'Falling Away,' making it a poignant reflection on the human condition.