if i were u (feat. Lauv)

In the song "if i were u (feat. Lauv)", blackbear delves into the complexities of a troubled relationship, exploring themes of regret, self-awareness, and the desire for change. The lyrics are a candid reflection on the mistakes made and the pain caused, with blackbear imagining how he would act differently if he were in his partner's shoes. This perspective shift serves as a powerful tool for self-examination, highlighting the flaws and toxic behaviors that have led to the relationship's deterioration.

The repeated refrain, "If I were you and you were me, I would say goodbye, turn around and leave," underscores a sense of inevitability and resignation. blackbear acknowledges that his actions have been hurtful and that, if roles were reversed, he would not tolerate such behavior. This admission is both a critique of his own actions and a recognition of his partner's suffering. The song's raw honesty is further emphasized by the vivid imagery of pouring a drink on someone's head and the candid admission of past wrongdoings.

Lauv's contribution adds another layer of emotional depth, as he echoes blackbear's sentiments and reflects on the emotional disconnect and misunderstandings that plague the relationship. The line, "The second that I showed any emotion, you cut me off," speaks to the vulnerability and frustration experienced by both parties. The song ultimately questions why people hurt each other and why they remain in situations that cause them pain, making it a poignant commentary on the human condition and the complexities of love and relationships.