Lower Your Expectations (If You Want Love)

Bo Burnham's "Lower Your Expectations (If You Want Love)" is a satirical song that humorously critiques the unrealistic expectations people often have for their romantic partners. The song begins by describing an idealized man who is a contradictory mix of traits, suggesting that such a person is impossible to find because he only exists in fantasy. Burnham uses hyperbole and humor to point out the absurdity of wanting a partner who is perfect in every way, highlighting the unrealistic nature of such desires.

The second verse mirrors the first, this time focusing on the unrealistic expectations men have for women. Burnham sarcastically comments on the male fantasy of a woman who is both effortlessly beautiful and uninterested in her appearance, while also being perfectly compatible with the man's interests. The song continues to use humor to expose the double standards and impossible standards that both men and women face in the dating world. The punchline that the ideal woman is real but 'last week she died' serves to underline the impossibility of these expectations.

Ultimately, the song concludes on a more sincere note, acknowledging that while everyone has flaws, everyone also deserves love. Burnham suggests that love is not about finding someone perfect, but about accepting imperfections and finding value in being with someone who makes us 'suck less.' The song's message is that lowering expectations and embracing imperfections can lead to genuine connections and love. It's a comedic yet poignant reminder that the pursuit of perfection in romance is not only futile but also overlooks the true essence of love, which is acceptance and mutual growth.