C'est Quoi, c'est l'Habitude

Isabelle Boulay's song "C'est Quoi, c'est l'Habitude" delves into the complexities of a relationship that seems to be losing its spark. The lyrics express a deep sense of uncertainty and introspection, as the narrator questions whether the love between her and her partner still exists or if it has been replaced by mere habit. The repetition of the phrase "C'est quoi, c'est l'habitude" (What is it, is it habit) underscores the confusion and the struggle to understand the current state of their relationship. This song captures the emotional turmoil of realizing that the connection that once felt so strong may now be fading into routine.

The song also touches on the fear of complacency and the lack of effort in maintaining the relationship. The line "J'ai peur de nos manques d'efforts" (I'm afraid of our lack of effort) highlights the anxiety that comes with recognizing that both partners might be taking each other for granted. The narrator's plea for honesty, asking her partner to tell her if they no longer love each other, reflects a desire for clarity and truth, even if it means facing a painful reality. This vulnerability is a poignant reminder of the importance of communication and effort in sustaining a loving relationship.

Furthermore, the song explores the theme of seeking temporary pleasures elsewhere as a way to cope with the dissatisfaction in the relationship. The mention of "plaisirs faciles, ailleurs" (easy pleasures, elsewhere) suggests that both partners might be looking for fulfillment outside their relationship, which only adds to the sense of disconnection and uncertainty. The recurring question of whether their love is still alive or if it has been replaced by habit and routine is a powerful reflection on the challenges of long-term relationships and the need for continuous effort and communication to keep the love alive.