But Sometimes (뭣 같아)
BOYNEXTDOOR
The Bittersweet Echoes of Moving On
The song "But Sometimes (뭣 같아)" by BOYNEXTDOOR delves into the complex emotions that follow the end of a relationship. The lyrics express a mixture of anger, regret, and lingering affection, painting a picture of someone who is trying to move on but is still haunted by memories of their former partner. The song's title, which translates to 'It sucks' or 'It's all messed up,' reflects the chaotic and painful feelings that often accompany a breakup.
The artist uses vivid imagery to convey the sense of loss and frustration. The mention of not being able to swear even when angry, and the once comforting shoulder now being an obstacle, symbolizes how the remnants of the relationship are now burdensome. The repeated lines about the ex-partner's unchanged appearance in photographs and the broken promises of change highlight the disillusionment and betrayal felt by the narrator. The juxtaposition of wanting the ex to disappear with the admission of missing them captures the duality of wanting to heal and the difficulty of letting go.
The latter part of the song shifts to a more reflective tone, with the narrator acknowledging their own well-being and social life post-breakup. However, the mention of the ex's struggles, like crying and feeling empty, suggests a lingering concern. The final lines, where the narrator rejects the ex's late realization of their worth, signify a step towards self-respect and closure. The song's narrative arc takes the listener through the tumultuous journey of post-breakup emotions, ultimately landing on a note of self-empowerment and independence.