La non-demande en mariage

Georges Brassens' song 'La non-demande en mariage' is a poetic and somewhat humorous take on the institution of marriage. Brassens, known for his clever wordplay and satirical lyrics, uses this song to express his preference for a love that remains free and unbound by the formalities and constraints of marriage. The song's title itself, which translates to 'The Non-Marriage Proposal,' sets the tone for the unconventional message that follows.

In the lyrics, Brassens addresses his beloved, urging her not to succumb to the traditional pressures of marriage. He uses vivid metaphors to illustrate his point, such as comparing the act of marriage to putting Cupid's arrow to one's throat, suggesting that formalizing their relationship could lead to the demise of their happiness. He emphasizes the importance of keeping their love free and unconfined, likening marriage to a prison where they would be 'prisoners on parole.' This imagery highlights his belief that true love does not need legal or societal validation to thrive.

Brassens also critiques the domestic roles often associated with marriage. He dismisses the need for a 'servant' and the mundane tasks of household chores, implying that these responsibilities can diminish the romantic and passionate aspects of a relationship. By refusing to 'engrave their names at the bottom of a parchment,' he rejects the idea of formalizing their union through marriage certificates or legal documents. Instead, he cherishes the idea of his beloved as an 'eternal fiancée,' a partner in love who remains free and unbound by societal expectations.

Through 'La non-demande en mariage,' Brassens celebrates the beauty of a love that is free from the constraints of traditional marriage. His lyrics encourage listeners to consider the value of a relationship based on mutual respect and freedom, rather than one confined by societal norms and legalities.