Obsessed (feat. Charlie Puth & Shenseea)
Calvin Harris
Unrequited Longing in 'Obsessed' by Calvin Harris
Calvin Harris's song 'Obsessed,' featuring Charlie Puth and Shenseea, delves into the emotional turmoil of unrequited love and the yearning for reciprocation. The lyrics express a deep sense of longing and frustration from the perspective of someone who misses their love interest every day, yet feels invisible to them. The repeated lines, 'I miss you every single day but you don't even look my way,' and 'I really wish you were obsessed with me,' highlight the pain of being unnoticed and the desire for the other person to feel the same intensity of emotions.
Shenseea's verse adds a layer of complexity to the narrative by portraying a confident and self-assured persona who refuses to be diminished by unrequited love. She emphasizes her independence and self-worth, stating that she doesn't need a man to validate her. Her lines, 'No, oh, man a stress over boys / I can do without 'em 'cause I got my toys,' reflect a modern, empowered stance on relationships, where self-love and personal fulfillment take precedence over seeking validation from others.
Charlie Puth's contribution to the song underscores the theme of lost connection and the hope for rekindling a past relationship. His lines, 'You don't even notice when I touch down in the city / I used to be top of your mind,' convey a sense of nostalgia and the pain of being replaced by someone else. The song's chorus, repeated throughout, serves as a poignant reminder of the central theme: the agony of loving someone who doesn't feel the same way and the wish for mutual obsession.
'Obsessed' combines elements of pop and dance music, characteristic of Calvin Harris's style, with heartfelt lyrics that resonate with anyone who has experienced unrequited love. The collaboration with Charlie Puth and Shenseea brings diverse vocal textures and perspectives, enriching the song's emotional depth and relatability.