Distancia de Seguridad

Carmen Boza's song "Distancia de Seguridad" delves into the complexities of emotional distance and self-preservation in relationships. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a person grappling with the fear of vulnerability and the need to maintain a safe distance to protect themselves. The opening lines, "Un minuto sordo, un luto absurdo / Que no hay porque guardar," suggest a moment of silence and an unnecessary mourning, hinting at the internal struggle of letting go of past hurts and the possibility of purification through chastity.

The recurring theme of "distancia de seguridad" or "safety distance" serves as a metaphor for the emotional barriers the narrator erects to avoid getting hurt. The fear of asking how the other person is doing, "No me atrevo a preguntar, a ver que tal estas / Por si dices la verdad," highlights the anxiety of facing uncomfortable truths that might increase this emotional distance. The metaphor of riding a bike without back wheels, "Es como montar en bici sin las ruedas de atrás," encapsulates the precariousness and instability of navigating relationships without the necessary support or readiness.

Boza's lyrics also touch on the idea of self-reliance and the reluctance to depend on others, as seen in the lines, "Solo apuesto doble o nada si lo apuesto por mi." This reflects a cautious approach to relationships, where the narrator is willing to take risks only if it benefits their self-growth. The song ultimately portrays a journey of self-discovery and the delicate balance between opening up to others and protecting one's emotional well-being. The imagery and metaphors used throughout the song create a poignant narrative of the struggles and fears associated with intimacy and commitment.