Amante Fiel
Cef Tanzy
The Dilemma of a Faithful Lover
Cef Tanzy's song "Amante Fiel" delves into the emotional turmoil and moral conflict experienced by someone entangled in an extramarital affair. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship fraught with deception, hypocrisy, and unfulfilled promises. The protagonist has been led to believe for two years that their lover would leave his wife, only to discover that she is now expecting a baby. This revelation underscores the depth of the betrayal and the false hope that has been cultivated over time.
The song highlights the double standards and narcissistic tendencies of the unfaithful partner. While he demands loyalty and fidelity from the protagonist, he continues to live a double life with his wife. This hypocrisy is further emphasized by his controlling behavior, as he scrutinizes the protagonist's phone and restricts her social interactions, labeling her friends as 'bandidas' (bandits). The protagonist's frustration is palpable as she realizes that she is being manipulated and used, her youth and time wasted on someone who will never fully commit to her.
Cef Tanzy's poignant lyrics also touch on the emotional manipulation and gaslighting that often accompany such relationships. The unfaithful partner's anger when reminded of his marital status and his refusal to publicly acknowledge the protagonist reveal his true intentions. The repeated refrain, "Tu queres que eu seja amante fiel" (You want me to be a faithful lover), serves as a powerful indictment of the partner's selfishness and the untenable position in which the protagonist finds herself. Ultimately, the song is a call for self-respect and liberation from a toxic relationship, urging the protagonist to reclaim her life and move on from a deceitful and narcissistic lover.