Ser Amante
Chiquetete
The Heartache of Being a Lover in the Shadows
Chiquetete's song "Ser Amante" delves into the emotional turmoil and complexities of being a lover who must remain hidden. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a clandestine relationship, where the protagonist must sneak away before dawn to return to another life. The imagery of setting the alarm clock and rushing through a deserted city underscores the secrecy and urgency that define this hidden love. The line "Para escapar del Sol que lo ve todo" (To escape the Sun that sees everything) metaphorically represents the need to avoid the light of day, which could expose their secret.
The chorus poignantly captures the essence of being an amante (lover). It describes the paradox of wanting to live openly but being unable to do so. The metaphor of a "flor de papel en el amor" (a paper flower in love) suggests something beautiful yet fragile and insubstantial, highlighting the ephemeral and delicate nature of their relationship. The repetition of "Ser amante es" emphasizes the various facets of this role, from giving the best of each moment to the inherent difficulty and pain it entails.
In the second verse, the protagonist reflects on missed opportunities and the consequences of their choices. The regret of not breaking free from other commitments and losing the chance to fully embrace their love is palpable. The morning walk through the city, now devoid of purpose or direction, symbolizes the emptiness left by the lost love. The song concludes with a reiteration of the chorus, reinforcing the bittersweet reality of being a lover who must remain in the shadows, unable to fully bask in the light of their love.