Lying Has To Stop

Clairo's song "Lying Has To Stop" delves into the complexities of a relationship marred by dishonesty and emotional turmoil. The lyrics paint a picture of a relationship where one partner is consistently deceitful, leading to a cycle of hurt and mistrust. The opening lines, "You'll find there's never really time for babes and wine / You lie, you'll never really change," suggest a pattern of broken promises and unfulfilled expectations. The repetition of the phrase "lying has to stop" serves as a desperate plea for honesty and transparency, indicating that the relationship cannot move forward without these fundamental changes.

The chorus, with lines like "You should turn back now / You're only crying just because / There's no return now," highlights the point of no return in the relationship. The partner's tears are seen as insincere, a manipulative tactic rather than a genuine expression of remorse. This emotional manipulation is a common theme in toxic relationships, where one partner uses tears and false promises to maintain control. Clairo's insistence that "all this lying has to stop" underscores the necessity of breaking free from this cycle to achieve emotional well-being.

In the second verse, Clairo introduces a sense of resignation and acceptance. Lines like "I'll never coincide if the chemistry is right / Oh babe do you see the light of day" suggest that even if there is a strong connection, it is not enough to sustain the relationship without honesty. The playful yet distant imagery of watching someone run but never touching them symbolizes the emotional distance that dishonesty creates. The song ultimately serves as a powerful reminder that trust and honesty are the cornerstones of any healthy relationship, and without them, love cannot truly flourish.