Homem Safado
Companhia do Calypso
The Struggle of Keeping a Faithless Man: A Bold Declaration
The song 'Homem Safado' by Companhia do Calypso is a powerful and assertive declaration from a woman who is fed up with her unfaithful partner. The lyrics vividly describe the challenges she faces in trying to keep her attractive but wayward man at home. The opening lines set the stage for a narrative about the difficulty of maintaining a relationship with a desirable man who is prone to infidelity. The singer's frustration is palpable as she addresses her partner directly, making it clear that she is not just a casual lover but his committed wife who has come to reclaim him.
The chorus of the song is particularly striking, with the woman issuing an ultimatum: her partner will come with her willingly or she will resort to more drastic measures. The phrase 'rodo a baiana' is a Brazilian expression that implies causing a scene or taking decisive action, underscoring her determination. She is willing to confront and fight off any other women ('quengas') who might be involved with her man, emphasizing her resolve to keep him by her side.
The lyrics also highlight the woman's sense of entitlement and justification for her demands. She works hard and provides for her partner, paying for his drinks, clothes, car, and food. This financial support gives her a sense of ownership and the right to demand his fidelity. The repeated refrain 'Eu quero e tenho direito' ('I want and I have the right') reinforces her claim over her 'homem safado' (shameless man), making it clear that she expects loyalty in return for her efforts and sacrifices. The song is a bold and unapologetic anthem of a woman's fight to keep her relationship intact despite the challenges posed by her partner's infidelity.