Doing Well?

The song 'Doing Well?' by Crazy Bastards delves into the complexities of a strained relationship marked by denial and emotional disconnection. The lyrics paint a picture of someone who has distanced themselves from a friend or loved one, primarily because the other person is living in denial and struggling with their own issues. The narrator expresses a sense of detachment, indicating that they no longer care about the person they once knew, as the latter has failed to confront their problems and share their true feelings.

The recurring theme of denial is evident in lines like 'you’ve been living in denial' and 'trying to hide that something’s wrong.' These phrases suggest that the person in question is avoiding reality and not addressing their underlying issues. This denial creates a barrier between them and the narrator, making it impossible for the relationship to thrive. The narrator's frustration is palpable, as they mention the 'compulsion' and 'shit that I don’t understand,' highlighting the incomprehensible and self-destructive behaviors of the other person.

The song also touches on the theme of seeking authenticity and reality. The line 'As you try to grab so desperately on to something that feels real' suggests a deep yearning for genuine connection and truth. However, the narrator remains skeptical, concluding with 'I don't think that you're doing well,' which underscores their belief that the other person is still lost in their struggles. This poignant ending leaves listeners reflecting on the importance of confronting one's issues and the impact of denial on relationships.