I Kissed a Boy
Dari
Exploring Curiosity and Defying Norms in 'I Kissed a Boy'
The song 'I Kissed a Boy' by Dari is a bold exploration of curiosity and the breaking of societal norms. The lyrics describe an impulsive moment where the protagonist, under the influence of alcohol, kisses a boy, which is a departure from their usual behavior. The act is framed as an experiment, driven by curiosity rather than romantic feelings, and the protagonist is keen to emphasize that the kiss doesn't signify love.
The repeated line 'I kissed a boy and I liked it' suggests a sense of surprise and pleasure, challenging the protagonist's expectations and perhaps their understanding of their own sexuality. The mention of 'cherry chapstick' adds a sensory detail that makes the experience more vivid. The song also touches on the potential consequences of this action, as the protagonist hopes their girlfriend won't mind, indicating a conflict between desire and commitment.
'I Kissed a Boy' also addresses themes of gender norms and expectations. The lyrics 'It's not what, good boys do / Not how they should behave' reflect societal pressures on men to conform to certain standards of masculinity. The song celebrates the magical and irresistible qualities of boys, suggesting that such experiences, regardless of gender, are natural and should not be stigmatized. The closing line 'Ain't no big deal, it's innocent' serves as a dismissal of any overblown reaction to the kiss, advocating for a more open-minded view of human interactions.