Say Hello Wave Goodbye

David Gray's 'Say Hello Wave Goodbye' is a poignant exploration of the end of a tumultuous relationship. The song opens with the imagery of standing at the door of the 'pink flamingo crying in the rain,' setting a melancholic tone. This line suggests a sense of regret and sorrow, as the protagonist reflects on a love that was 'so-so' and vows to ensure it doesn't happen again. The relationship is described as a 'standing joke of the year,' indicating that it was fraught with issues and perhaps even ridicule from others. The protagonist's partner is depicted as unreliable and inconsistent, someone who is 'a run around, a lost and found,' and ultimately not suitable for a stable relationship.

The chorus, 'Take your hands off me, I don't belong to you,' signifies a strong desire for independence and a final break from the past. The repeated line, 'Say hello and wave goodbye,' encapsulates the bittersweet nature of farewells—acknowledging the end while also recognizing the need to move on. The protagonist asserts that they never truly knew each other, emphasizing the disconnect and lack of genuine understanding in the relationship.

As the song progresses, the protagonist reflects on the failed attempts to make the relationship work. The contrast between the partner's 'cocktail skirt' and the protagonist's 'suit' symbolizes their incompatibility. The partner's insecurity and chaotic lifestyle are highlighted, suggesting that these traits contributed to the relationship's downfall. The protagonist envisions a future with someone more stable, 'a nice little housewife,' who can provide a steady life. This desire for stability contrasts sharply with the unpredictable nature of the current partner. The song concludes with a repeated farewell, underscoring the finality of the decision to part ways.