To Be a Man (Remix) (feat. Darius Rucker)

The song "To Be a Man (Remix)" by Dax featuring Darius Rucker delves into the complex and often misunderstood concept of masculinity. The lyrics express the internal struggles and societal pressures that men face, particularly the expectation to be stoic providers who suppress their emotions in favor of strength and resilience. Dax uses his personal narrative and the lessons from his father to convey the emotional toll of these expectations.

The song touches on the loneliness that comes with the traditional male role, where men are expected to prioritize providing for their families over their own emotional well-being. Dax highlights the disconnect between what society expects of men and the reality of their internal experiences. The refrain "It's not 'bout how you feel, but what you provide inside that home" encapsulates the message that men are often valued more for their material contributions than their emotional presence.

Dax also addresses the cyclical nature of these expectations, where sons learn from their fathers and perpetuate the same behaviors, potentially leading to a 'generational curse.' The song calls for empathy and understanding, urging society to recognize the silent battles men fight and the importance of mental health. The collaboration with Darius Rucker adds depth to the song, as Rucker's own experiences and musical style contribute to the authenticity of the message being conveyed.