Brand New Lover
Dead Or Alive
The Quest for Excitement: A New Lover
Dead Or Alive's song "Brand New Lover" delves into the complexities of romantic relationships and the desire for novelty and excitement. The lyrics are a candid confession from the protagonist, who finds their current relationship too predictable and safe. The phrase "Your sweet nature darling was too hard to swallow" suggests that the partner's kindness and stability have become stifling, leading to a yearning for something more thrilling and unpredictable. This sentiment is encapsulated in the repeated line, "I want surprises," highlighting the protagonist's craving for spontaneity and new experiences.
The chorus, "What I really need to do is find myself a brand new lover," underscores the protagonist's decision to seek out a new relationship. This new lover is envisioned as someone who can provide the excitement and unpredictability that the current partner lacks. The line "Somebody who lies with me and doesn't notice all the others" hints at a desire for a partner who is both attentive and oblivious to the protagonist's wandering eye, suggesting a complex interplay of fidelity and infidelity.
The song also touches on themes of guilt and self-awareness. The protagonist acknowledges the pain their departure will cause, as seen in the lines "When you wake up tomorrow, you'll be all alone" and "I couldn't stand there and put you through it." Despite this, they feel compelled to leave in search of personal fulfillment and curiosity. The admission, "My other loves will tell you that I'm nothing but a pleasure seeker," reveals a pattern of behavior driven by a relentless pursuit of pleasure and new experiences, even at the cost of emotional stability and commitment.