querernos bien otra vez
Delfina Campos
Rediscovering Love Amidst Conflict
Delfina Campos' song 'querernos bien otra vez' delves into the complexities of a relationship that has lost its way. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a couple who once shared a deep connection but now find themselves in constant conflict. The opening lines, 'No sé cuando nos desviamos / Por qué estamos / Haciéndonos la guerra siempre,' suggest a sense of confusion and frustration about how they ended up in this state of perpetual argument. The couple is depicted as being on high alert, always cautious of making a wrong move, and even pretending in front of others to maintain a facade of normalcy.
The recurring question, '¿Vos creés que podemos querernos bien otra vez?' serves as the emotional core of the song. It reflects a yearning to return to a time when their love was pure and uncomplicated. This question is not just rhetorical; it is a desperate plea for reassurance and hope. The imagery of them arguing in the car, 'Vamos en el auto / Y seguimos gritando, a ver / Quién tiene razón,' highlights the futility of their disputes. Both partners know the issues at hand and are trying to resolve them, yet they find it incredibly challenging to bridge the gap that has formed between them.
Campos also touches on the idea of ordinary versus extraordinary love. 'No somos extraordinarios / Lo perfecto ya pasó / Nos convertimos en villanos los dos,' suggests that their relationship has lost its initial magic and has become something more mundane and flawed. Despite this, there is a glimmer of hope as one partner promises that things will get better, likening it to the unexpected warmth of July. This metaphor serves as a reminder that even in the bleakest times, there is potential for renewal and warmth.
The song is a poignant exploration of love, conflict, and the hope for reconciliation. It captures the emotional turbulence of trying to mend a fractured relationship and the deep-seated desire to 'querernos bien otra vez.'