Change You

Demi Lovato's song 'Change You' delves into the emotional turmoil of trying to change someone who is resistant to transformation. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of the frustration and heartache that comes with loving someone who is stuck in their ways. Lovato's powerful voice and emotive delivery amplify the sense of desperation and resignation that permeates the song. The repeated refrain, 'Never gonna change you,' underscores the futility of the effort and the toll it takes on the person trying to help.

The song explores the idea that despite the best intentions and efforts, some people are simply unwilling or unable to change. Lovato sings about the pain of seeing someone you care about struggle with their demons, whether they be vices or past traumas. The line 'I thought my hands could hold the hurt, that you are feeling' speaks to the desire to alleviate the other person's pain, but ultimately realizing that it's a losing battle. The metaphor of 'trusting the devil on your side' suggests that the person is more comfortable with their destructive habits than with the possibility of change.

'Change You' also touches on the self-destructive nature of trying to change someone else. Lovato acknowledges that the effort is starting to change her, making it harder to help the other person. The fear of losing oneself in another's problems is a poignant theme, encapsulated in the line 'I don't wanna wake up one day and not know my face.' This highlights the importance of self-preservation and recognizing when it's time to let go, even if it means accepting that the other person will never change.