Shouldn’t Come Back
Demi Lovato
Breaking Free from a Painful Past
Demi Lovato's song "Shouldn’t Come Back" is a poignant exploration of the emotional turmoil that comes with severing ties from a toxic relationship. The lyrics convey a sense of exhaustion and frustration, as the protagonist grapples with the decision to cut off contact with someone who has repeatedly let them down. The repeated calls and missed birthdays symbolize a pattern of neglect and disappointment, which has left deep emotional scars. Lovato's refusal to pick up the phone and her unapologetic stance for not replying highlight her resolve to protect her mental well-being.
The chorus, with its repeated plea of "Maybe you shouldn't come back," underscores the internal conflict between longing for reconciliation and recognizing the necessity of moving on. The lines "Tired of being so sad, tired of getting so mad" encapsulate the emotional fatigue that comes from being in a relationship that is more hurtful than healing. This sentiment is further emphasized by the acknowledgment that the person in question will only bring more disappointment if they return.
Lovato's raw and honest delivery of the lyrics adds an extra layer of vulnerability to the song. Her powerful voice conveys the pain and strength required to make such a difficult decision. The song serves as an anthem for anyone who has had to make the tough choice to prioritize their own happiness and mental health over a relationship that no longer serves them. It is a reminder that sometimes, the best way to heal is to let go and not look back.