Black Girl Memoir

Doechii's "Black Girl Memoir" is a powerful exploration of identity, aspiration, and the struggles faced by Black women. The song opens with a recurring motif of using substances to escape reality, a metaphor for the desire to forget the daily struggles and societal pressures. This theme of escapism is juxtaposed with the pursuit of financial success, as the lyrics emphasize the importance of "getting your bank and making your comma," highlighting the drive for economic independence and stability.

The song delves into the complexities of self-identity, with Doechii expressing a wish to possess the confidence and success of cultural icons like Beyoncé, Kanye West, and André 3000. These references serve as a commentary on the societal standards of beauty and success, and the internal conflict of wanting to fit into these molds while also striving to break free from them. The mention of Erykah Badu and the desire to "astral ‘ject out of 'Merica" further underscores a longing for spiritual and physical liberation from the constraints of American society.

In the latter part of the song, Doechii addresses personal trauma and resilience. The imagery of "combin’ out my trauma like my mama, do bdb's" is a poignant metaphor for the painful process of confronting and overcoming past hardships. The lyrics also touch on themes of defiance and self-empowerment, as Doechii asserts her determination to rise above the limitations imposed by others. The repeated refrain of "you can be anything" serves as an empowering message, encouraging listeners to embrace their potential and defy societal expectations.