Been Like This

Doja Cat's 'Been Like This' delves into the emotional complexities of a relationship that has undergone significant changes, not all of which are positive. The lyrics express a sense of frustration and sadness over the transformation of a partner and the subsequent impact on the relationship. Doja Cat articulates the difficulty of dealing with these changes, suggesting that they have made her feel nervous, disheartened, and even led her to question her own perceptions and feelings.

The song's chorus, 'Since you've been like this / Baby, I don't really wanna be in like this,' captures the essence of reaching a breaking point. It reflects the moment when one realizes that the relationship, as it currently stands, is no longer something they want to be a part of. This sentiment is reinforced by the lines 'And we'll never be friends like this / God couldn't forgive like this,' which imply a sense of finality and irreparable damage. The use of repetition in the lyrics emphasizes the ongoing nature of the problem and the singer's weariness.

Doja Cat also touches on themes of communication breakdown and the pain of unreciprocated effort in the relationship. She describes giving her all, only to be met with accusations and a lack of support. The song conveys a deep emotional struggle, where love and hate intertwine, leaving the artist in a state of limbo, unsure of how to move forward but certain that the current situation is untenable. 'Been Like This' is a candid exploration of the darker side of love, where the hurt runs deep and the path to resolution is unclear.