Madem

Dolu Kadehi Ters Tut's song 'Madem' is a passionate declaration of love and commitment, wrapped in a narrative of defiance against societal pressures. The song begins with the protagonist encountering a woman who stands out in the darkness, described as 'whiter than the moon.' This initial meeting sparks a desire and a question: can this girl be his? The repeated affirmations of 'dedim olabilir' (I said it could be) and 'dedin olabilir' (you said it could be) signify mutual consent and the beginning of a relationship that others envy and criticize.

The chorus reveals the protagonist's frustration with the constant scrutiny and jealousy from others. He rhetorically questions why, if others wanted her so much, they didn't make an effort to keep her. This sentiment is encapsulated in the lines 'madem seni çok istiyorlardı, öylece ortaya koymasalardı' (if they wanted you so much, they shouldn't have left you out in the open). The protagonist's resolve is clear: he has found love, and he is not willing to give it up, regardless of what others say. This defiance is further emphasized with the declaration 'kim ne derse desin bana ne! diyeceğim' (no matter what anyone says, I will say 'so what!').

The song also touches on the challenges of maintaining a relationship in the face of public opinion. The protagonist is tired of hiding his love from prying eyes and gossiping tongues. The repeated exclamations of 'of, bu ne güzellik be hatun!' (oh, what beauty, woman!) highlight his admiration and the reason for the envy they face. Despite the difficulties, the protagonist remains steadfast in his love, expressing happiness and an unwavering commitment to his partner. 'Madem' is a powerful anthem of love, resilience, and the determination to protect and cherish a relationship against all odds.