When You're Sober (When Ur Sober) (Unreleased)
Dua Lipa
The Uncertainty of Intoxicated Love
Dua Lipa's unreleased track "When You're Sober (When Ur Sober)" delves into the complexities of love and affection under the influence of alcohol. The song captures the emotional turmoil of questioning the authenticity of romantic gestures made during intoxicated moments. The lyrics reveal a narrative where the protagonist is unsure whether the affection they receive is genuine or merely a product of the other person's inebriation. This uncertainty is poignantly expressed in lines like "Will you take back those feels? When you're sober" and "Will you give me love, give me love, give me love, or are you givin' up, givin' up, givin' up?"
The song's verses paint a vivid picture of a night out, where the protagonist is caught off guard by the mixed signals they receive. The repeated questioning of the other person's intentions highlights a deep-seated fear of vulnerability and the potential for heartbreak. The protagonist's internal struggle is evident as they try to guard their heart, unsure whether to trust the affection shown to them. This is encapsulated in the lines, "I'm holding my cards, gotta keep my guard up, I won't open up until I know the truth."
Dua Lipa's vocal delivery adds an extra layer of emotion to the song, making the listener feel the protagonist's confusion and longing for clarity. The recurring theme of questioning whether the love will persist once the alcohol wears off is a relatable scenario for many, making the song resonate on a personal level. The track ultimately explores the fragile nature of love and the desire for genuine connection, free from the haze of intoxication.